If You Have Concerns, Act Early.
If You Have Concerns About Your Child’s Development, trust your instincts. Act early.
Every child develops at their own pace, but you know your child best. If something doesn’t feel right, whether a missed milestone, regression, or a general concern, it’s important to take the next step.
You don’t need to be certain. You just need to start. Early action can make a meaningful difference.
When to Take Action
You may want to seek guidance if your child:
Is not meeting expected developmental milestones
Stops doing things they previously could do (regression)
Shows limited movement, communication, or social interaction for their age
You feel unsure or have any concerns with the way your child plays, learns, speaks, acts, or moves
You do not need to wait for certainty. Acting early is always the right choice.
What To Do Next
Follow these steps to better understand your child’s development and get the right support if needed:
1. Complete a Milestone Checklist
Start by reviewing a Milestone Checklist for your child’s age (available for free through The Milestone Moments Education Hub).
Identify which milestones your child is meeting
Take note of anything that seems delayed or missing
Write down any questions or concerns
This gives you a clear starting point and helps guide conversations with professionals.
2. Talk With Your Child’s Doctor
Share your checklist and concerns with your pediatrician or healthcare provider.
Be specific about what you’ve observed
Bring your completed checklist
Ask whether your child’s development is on track
You are your child’s best advocate; your observations matter!
3. Ask for a Developmental Screening
If concerns remain, request a developmental screening.
Screenings are simple tools used to check development
They can help identify whether further evaluation is needed
The AAP recommends that children be screened at 9, 18, or 30 months and for autism at 18 and 24 months
You do not need to wait for a scheduled visit; you can ask for a Developmental Screening at any time.
4. Ask for a Referral
If the screening suggests a concern, ask your doctor for a referral.
Referrals may be made to specialists or any early intervention programs
This step helps connect you with professionals who can take a closer look at the cause of one or more Developmental Delay(s).
5. Get a Developmental Evaluation
For Children Ages 0 to 3 Years
Contact your state’s Early Intervention program directly. Find Early Intervention Services in Your State.
Evaluations are often free or low-cost
You may not need a doctor’s referral, though having one never hurts
For Children Ages 3 Years and Older
Contact your local public school system to request an evaluation.
Evaluations are typically provided at no cost
Schools can assess developmental and educational needs
If eligible, your child may receive support services. Services may include physical, occupational, and speech therapy, as appropriate.
Remember that You Are Not Alone.
Most parents have questions or concerns at some point. Taking action early is one of the most important things you can do for your child.
It’s not about labeling your child, it’s about supporting their growth and potential.
A Very Important Note
Early Motion Matters provides educational resources and guidance. We do not diagnose or treat medical conditions. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider with concerns about your child’s development.
The information we provide is intended to support learning and awareness, not to replace guidance from a healthcare or early childhood professional.